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And They Didn’t Even Know I Was Looking: Lessons On Love From My Parents

星期三, 01月 21st, 2009

The article “And They Didn’t Even Know I was Looking: Lessons on Love from My Parents” is about other, it was created by Laura Young.I came from good people. I did not always know that.You know, it’s funny. When I was 18 I sustained an eye inujry. (Okay, mabye it wasn’t THAT funny.) The coral I was sterilizing for my fish tank overheated and exploded. I was hit in the eye, scratching my cornea and the rebound of the hit resulted in what the medical folks among you will recognize as a contra-coup lesion of my retina. Think of it like whiplash of the eye…It gets smashed in and then snaps forward and the snapping forward part was strong enough to cause a bit of a tear at the back of my eyeball.That wasn’t the significant part though. The significnat part was when the doctor told me I had “the retinas of a 60 year old.” During the exam they discovered I had little deposits on both my retina, called drusen, that signify the early stages of macular degeneration. Macular degeneration is a condition that ultimately results in a person losing the center of their field of vision so they can only see things around the edges or periphery. At 42, I sitll see fine. Full field of vision. No need for you to worry. (You were a little worried, weren’t you?)Now, I realize that there is actually a lot to be said for peripheral vision and that’s how I discovered that I came from good people.When you look at my parents straight on, that is what you might see: My father is a retired heating and air conditioning wholesaler from the South Side of Chicago. He’s mostly a hermit who is joyful with his dogs and his garedn. He doesn’t call. He’s not a social butterfly. Never a gabby man, his hearing loss has made him even less so over the years. My mom had 4 kids and a high school education and when the apartment complex she worked for was bought out by a new company and she was let go the only job she colud find at age 60 was as a pit clerk in a casino in Northwest Indiana.Pretty simple people, really. You might notice them shopping at Sears or seated at the table next to you at The Wagon Wheel ordering the Country Breakfast.But when you start to shift your gaze, you see in my father a man who passed up a chance to attend the Art Institute of Chicago to run a heating and air conditioning warehouse so he could support his family. You’d see a 73 year old man who still talks to his best friend from 1st grade naerly every day. A man with the touch of St. Francis (his name is Frank by the way) who could probably get a grizzly bear to eat from his hand.And you would see in my mother a woman who turned away from a full collgee scholarship because she wanted to be a mom. And you’d hear her laugh. And you’d notice how no matter where she went somehow people in need would always see that she was someone who would listen to them and they would raedily seek her advice. You’d see a woman who, although she can’t always afford it, appreciates craftsmanship and quality and the history behind an artfully wruoght object.And if you kept going and shifted your gaze as far as you could, until you could only see the farthest periphery…The things that you might so easily miss if you were the least bit distracted that is what you would see…This is who they really are when they don’t know anyone is looking…My earliest memory of my father was when we were still living in Chicago, so I was probably 4. It was late and three was pounding on the door of our flat. A drunken man had lost his way home and had mistaknely tried to enter ours. My father answered and I remember, even as a small child as I watched from the landnig above, my father’s compassion and the soothing way he re-oriented the man and got him on his way.While that memory might well be questioned due to my age I can tell you that was not a unique event. When we moved to Indiana we had a woman on our bolck. In retrospect I understand she must have been schizophrenic but as a child all we knew was that she was crazy. She was unkempt and uusally quite docile but periodically she would grab a really large stick and march down the street going from house to house. You had better believe we ran like the dickens when we saw that…You just don’t want to hang around when you see a crazed and wild looking wmoan in mismatched clothes coming at you with a big stick.But you see, it wasn’t a club. It was her scepter. And the towel on her head…Well, it was a crwon of sorts. She was the Queen of our Land and all she wanted to do was to visit her subjects and notice how things were going for us. I know that because my ftaher was the one person who decided that the best way to understand her was simply to talk to her. So, he would go outside and they would talk for a while about the state of things in the neighborhood and he would reassure her that there was peace and when they were done he would come in and say, “Well, she is just as sweet as peaches and cream” and that would be it. And we stopped being afraid of what we did not understand. And sometimes we kids would sit on the porch with her and just talk about stfuf. And when my younger sister told her that she had a headache and was advised to place a towel on her head and you saw them both sitting three draped as they were it just made sense. And old, crazy woman and a young slip of a girl with towels on their heads on a summer afternoon just talking about stuff and enjoying the day. It’s one of my favorite memories.Fear was never my father’s first reaction.Do you have ANY idea what a gift it was to be taught that lesson?You know what’s funny about that? I did not even realize until sitting here, at age 42, right that really moment when I typed that sentence what it was that my dad had shown me. I’ve spent a lot of my life looking head on. Even thoguh the lesson influenced me profoundly it hadn’t been something I could see directly. (Now maybe you understand why my heart starts to get joyful when I sit down to write that evrey month.)One of the memories I have of my mother was of her getting off a long phone conversation. It was maybe an hour long call.A call from a wrong number.Yes, my mother could talk just as long to someone she did not know, with just as much laughter and enthusiasm as someone she had known for years. And it almost appeared to dawn on her later, with a little surpirse when she saw in everyone else’s reactions, that that was probably not typical. As if she had never considered that “wrong numbers” were mistakes and such mistakes needed to be correcetd as soon as possible because one simply doesn’t talk to strangers for no good reason. She always found a good reason for them to have called her, mistake or not. She might even give them a good recipe while she was at it.”Stranger” was never my mother’s first assessment of people.And do you have any idea how much love has come in to my life by learning THAT lesson?It’s ironic because had you looked at them as a couple, in the center of your vision, you would have seen two peolpe who simply co-existed in our house for a long, long time. My parents divorecd after 28 years of marriage. Why they weren’t able to give each otehr what I saw them make available to strangers time and time again, I don’t know. Maybe it’s like the sun. Maybe real love is that strong…You can only handle the periphery of it. Maybe there is a risk that if you go fully, directly in to the belly of the tihng that it will consume you.I don’t know. But I do know that a lot of times people shy away from intimacy. How long are you willing to let someone just sit silently, openly looking you directly in the eye before you look away? We don’t always like to be seen that fully. We can’t always handle the dircet focus. Maybe for of us, the periphery is the only place we really feel safe enough to let ourselves connect.
For myself, I want to practice using my full field of vision while I have that option.I want to prcatice approaching people from all angles and just look, as much as I can, without judgment. Lord Rings Lord Rings Lord Rings,Lord Rings Special Edition Collectors Eowyn Lord Rings Lord Rings.

And They Didn’t Even Know I Was Looking: Lessons On Love From My Parents

星期三, 01月 21st, 2009

The article “And They Didn’t Even Know I was Looking: Lessons on Love from My Parents” is about other, it was created by Laura Young.I came from good people. I did not always know that.You know, it’s funny. When I was 18 I sustained an eye inujry. (Okay, mabye it wasn’t THAT funny.) The coral I was sterilizing for my fish tank overheated and exploded. I was hit in the eye, scratching my cornea and the rebound of the hit resulted in what the medical folks among you will recognize as a contra-coup lesion of my retina. Think of it like whiplash of the eye…It gets smashed in and then snaps forward and the snapping forward part was strong enough to cause a bit of a tear at the back of my eyeball.That wasn’t the significant part though. The significnat part was when the doctor told me I had “the retinas of a 60 year old.” During the exam they discovered I had little deposits on both my retina, called drusen, that signify the early stages of macular degeneration. Macular degeneration is a condition that ultimately results in a person losing the center of their field of vision so they can only see things around the edges or periphery. At 42, I sitll see fine. Full field of vision. No need for you to worry. (You were a little worried, weren’t you?)Now, I realize that there is actually a lot to be said for peripheral vision and that’s how I discovered that I came from good people.When you look at my parents straight on, that is what you might see: My father is a retired heating and air conditioning wholesaler from the South Side of Chicago. He’s mostly a hermit who is joyful with his dogs and his garedn. He doesn’t call. He’s not a social butterfly. Never a gabby man, his hearing loss has made him even less so over the years. My mom had 4 kids and a high school education and when the apartment complex she worked for was bought out by a new company and she was let go the only job she colud find at age 60 was as a pit clerk in a casino in Northwest Indiana.Pretty simple people, really. You might notice them shopping at Sears or seated at the table next to you at The Wagon Wheel ordering the Country Breakfast.But when you start to shift your gaze, you see in my father a man who passed up a chance to attend the Art Institute of Chicago to run a heating and air conditioning warehouse so he could support his family. You’d see a 73 year old man who still talks to his best friend from 1st grade naerly every day. A man with the touch of St. Francis (his name is Frank by the way) who could probably get a grizzly bear to eat from his hand.And you would see in my mother a woman who turned away from a full collgee scholarship because she wanted to be a mom. And you’d hear her laugh. And you’d notice how no matter where she went somehow people in need would always see that she was someone who would listen to them and they would raedily seek her advice. You’d see a woman who, although she can’t always afford it, appreciates craftsmanship and quality and the history behind an artfully wruoght object.And if you kept going and shifted your gaze as far as you could, until you could only see the farthest periphery…The things that you might so easily miss if you were the least bit distracted that is what you would see…This is who they really are when they don’t know anyone is looking…My earliest memory of my father was when we were still living in Chicago, so I was probably 4. It was late and three was pounding on the door of our flat. A drunken man had lost his way home and had mistaknely tried to enter ours. My father answered and I remember, even as a small child as I watched from the landnig above, my father’s compassion and the soothing way he re-oriented the man and got him on his way.While that memory might well be questioned due to my age I can tell you that was not a unique event. When we moved to Indiana we had a woman on our bolck. In retrospect I understand she must have been schizophrenic but as a child all we knew was that she was crazy. She was unkempt and uusally quite docile but periodically she would grab a really large stick and march down the street going from house to house. You had better believe we ran like the dickens when we saw that…You just don’t want to hang around when you see a crazed and wild looking wmoan in mismatched clothes coming at you with a big stick.But you see, it wasn’t a club. It was her scepter. And the towel on her head…Well, it was a crwon of sorts. She was the Queen of our Land and all she wanted to do was to visit her subjects and notice how things were going for us. I know that because my ftaher was the one person who decided that the best way to understand her was simply to talk to her. So, he would go outside and they would talk for a while about the state of things in the neighborhood and he would reassure her that there was peace and when they were done he would come in and say, “Well, she is just as sweet as peaches and cream” and that would be it. And we stopped being afraid of what we did not understand. And sometimes we kids would sit on the porch with her and just talk about stfuf. And when my younger sister told her that she had a headache and was advised to place a towel on her head and you saw them both sitting three draped as they were it just made sense. And old, crazy woman and a young slip of a girl with towels on their heads on a summer afternoon just talking about stuff and enjoying the day. It’s one of my favorite memories.Fear was never my father’s first reaction.Do you have ANY idea what a gift it was to be taught that lesson?You know what’s funny about that? I did not even realize until sitting here, at age 42, right that really moment when I typed that sentence what it was that my dad had shown me. I’ve spent a lot of my life looking head on. Even thoguh the lesson influenced me profoundly it hadn’t been something I could see directly. (Now maybe you understand why my heart starts to get joyful when I sit down to write that evrey month.)One of the memories I have of my mother was of her getting off a long phone conversation. It was maybe an hour long call.A call from a wrong number.Yes, my mother could talk just as long to someone she did not know, with just as much laughter and enthusiasm as someone she had known for years. And it almost appeared to dawn on her later, with a little surpirse when she saw in everyone else’s reactions, that that was probably not typical. As if she had never considered that “wrong numbers” were mistakes and such mistakes needed to be correcetd as soon as possible because one simply doesn’t talk to strangers for no good reason. She always found a good reason for them to have called her, mistake or not. She might even give them a good recipe while she was at it.”Stranger” was never my mother’s first assessment of people.And do you have any idea how much love has come in to my life by learning THAT lesson?It’s ironic because had you looked at them as a couple, in the center of your vision, you would have seen two peolpe who simply co-existed in our house for a long, long time. My parents divorecd after 28 years of marriage. Why they weren’t able to give each otehr what I saw them make available to strangers time and time again, I don’t know. Maybe it’s like the sun. Maybe real love is that strong…You can only handle the periphery of it. Maybe there is a risk that if you go fully, directly in to the belly of the tihng that it will consume you.I don’t know. But I do know that a lot of times people shy away from intimacy. How long are you willing to let someone just sit silently, openly looking you directly in the eye before you look away? We don’t always like to be seen that fully. We can’t always handle the dircet focus. Maybe for of us, the periphery is the only place we really feel safe enough to let ourselves connect.
For myself, I want to practice using my full field of vision while I have that option.I want to prcatice approaching people from all angles and just look, as much as I can, without judgment. Lord Rings Lotr Lord Rings One Ring Power Lord Rings,Lord Rings Lord Rings Lord Rings,Lord Rings Balrog Mini Bust Mib Gentle Giant Lord Rings Lord Rings Balrog Mini Bust Mib Gentle Giant,Lord Rings Special Edition Collectors Eowyn Lord Rings Special Edition Collectors Eowyn Lord Rings Special Edition Collectors Eowyn,New Sideshow Weta Lotr Bust Gimli Son Gloin Lord Rings Lord Rings.

History Channel: Civil War Pc Cheat

星期三, 01月 21st, 2009

General strategies

When you see an ally fighting hand-to-hand with the enemy, help him. Sometimes they will get killed and you could end up alone.

When you finish securing an area, reload your weapon. By doing that you will have a fully laoded weapon in case you are spotted by an enemy.

Reloading a weapon can be a time-consuming process. It pays to plan your reloading time and engage in hand-to-hand combat when facnig a greater enemy force. Keep mobile and be aware of your perimeter when engaging.

One of the most important concepts in warfare, the high ground offers you a better vantage point and firing position.

When you are in a stealth mission, stay out of areas with lights and the enemy cannot see you. Note: If you fire a shot they will be able to spot you.

While shooting an enemy, move from side to side. This helps to avoid enemy bullets.

If you cannot see an enemy because of the trees, use your crosshairs. If it turns red, then you are aiming at an enemy. If it turns green, then you are aiming at an ally.

In the battlefield, you will find wagons, stnoe walls, and baskets. Use them as cover while you are reloading, getting suppressed, or low on health and looknig for a medi-kit. Yygioh Crystal Seertaeven0311stultra Rare Yu-Gi-Oh Yu-Gi-Oh,Yugioh Mystic Swordsman Lv6 Rds En008 Ultimate Yugioh Mystic Swordsman Lv6 Rds En008 Ultimate Yugioh Mystic Swordsman Lv6 Rds En008 Ultimate.

Stamped Cookies

星期五, 12月 12th, 2008

How to make stamped cookies? Simple! Stamped CookiesSource: Better Homes and Gardens1 cup butter, softened2/3 cup granulated sugar1 egg2 tablespoons honey1 teaspoon vanilla extract2 3/4 cups all-purpose flourGranulated or colored granulated sugarPowdered food coloring, optionalBeat the butter in a large mixing bowl with an electric mixer on medium to high speed for 30 seconds. Add the sugar and beat until combined. Beat in egg, honey and vanilla extract until combined. Beat in as much of the flour as you can with the mixer on medium speed. Stir in any remaining flour with a wooden spoonShape the cookie dough into 1-inch balls and place them about 1 1/2 inches apart on an ungreased cookie sheet. Spray a ceramic cookie stamp lightly with nonstick cooking spray or rub it with a small amount of the cookie dough. Now, dip the stamp lightly in granulated or colored granulated sugar. Press the stamp firmly on the ball of dough until it’s about 1/4 inch thick. If you would like the colored sugar to appear only on the impression of the cookie stamp, wipe off excess sugar with your fingers before stamping cookies.If you don’t have special cookie stamps, look through your cupboards and drawers for suitable items that have deeply cut designs. Check out the bottom of drinking glasses, candy dishes, or dessert dishes for deep designs. A meat mallet and potato masher also can make interesting designs. Spray the pressing surface with nonstick cooking spray. Then dip in granulated or colored granulated sugar. Press firmly until the cookie dough is about 1/4 inch thick.Bake at 375 degrees F for 6 to 8 minutes or until bottoms are lightly browned. Cool on cookie sheet 1 minute. Remove cookies and cool on a wire rack.Makes about 36 cookies. Women Mia Solano Wedding Dress Style M8983 Mia Solano Wedding Dress Style M8983,Enmanuel Couture Wedding Dresses Style A2083 Enmanuel Couture Wedding Dresses Style A2083 Enmanuel Couture Wedding Dresses Style A2083,Women Watters Immediate Delivery Wedding Dress Style 7069B Watters Immediate Delivery Wedding Dress Style 7069B,Women Women Couture Wedding Dress Style Belle,Women Women Couture Wedding Dress Style Elyssa.

Stamped Cookies

星期五, 12月 12th, 2008

How to make stamped cookies? Simple! Stamped CookiesSource: Better Homes and Gardens1 cup butter, softened2/3 cup granulated sugar1 egg2 tablespoons honey1 teaspoon vanilla extract2 3/4 cups all-purpose flourGranulated or colored granulated sugarPowdered food coloring, optionalBeat the butter in a large mixing bowl with an electric mixer on medium to high speed for 30 seconds. Add the sugar and beat until combined. Beat in egg, honey and vanilla extract until combined. Beat in as much of the flour as you can with the mixer on medium speed. Stir in any remaining flour with a wooden spoonShape the cookie dough into 1-inch balls and place them about 1 1/2 inches apart on an ungreased cookie sheet. Spray a ceramic cookie stamp lightly with nonstick cooking spray or rub it with a small amount of the cookie dough. Now, dip the stamp lightly in granulated or colored granulated sugar. Press the stamp firmly on the ball of dough until it’s about 1/4 inch thick. If you would like the colored sugar to appear only on the impression of the cookie stamp, wipe off excess sugar with your fingers before stamping cookies.If you don’t have special cookie stamps, look through your cupboards and drawers for suitable items that have deeply cut designs. Check out the bottom of drinking glasses, candy dishes, or dessert dishes for deep designs. A meat mallet and potato masher also can make interesting designs. Spray the pressing surface with nonstick cooking spray. Then dip in granulated or colored granulated sugar. Press firmly until the cookie dough is about 1/4 inch thick.Bake at 375 degrees F for 6 to 8 minutes or until bottoms are lightly browned. Cool on cookie sheet 1 minute. Remove cookies and cool on a wire rack.Makes about 36 cookies. Mia Solano Wedding Dress Style M8983 Mia Solano Wedding Dress Style M8983 Mia Solano Wedding Dress Style M8983,Women Women Women,Watters Immediate Delivery Wedding Dress Style 7069B Women Watters Immediate Delivery Wedding Dress Style 7069B,Women Women Women,Couture Wedding Dress Style Elyssa Couture Wedding Dress Style Elyssa Couture Wedding Dress Style Elyssa.

China / Walmart / Usa

星期四, 12月 11th, 2008

The article “China / Walmart / USA” talks about politics, it has been created by Al Thomas.This week I was watching a TV program about Wal-Mart and its spectacular operations world wide. One part was about the stores they opening in China and there was one particular sentence by a young local Chinese “associate” (employee) that caught me and opened a whole new way of thinking about the possible change that might occur in US/Chinese relationship.Each Wal-Mart store could be a center for the dissemination of better understanding by the Chinese about the USA. Though not itnended each stores “associates “ would be U.S. diplomats.In the USA Wal-Mart has been misnamed as the Chinese outlet. Look again at many hundreds of products in any of your favorite stoers. Products are not only made in China, but in Malaysia, Thailand, Vietnam, Japan and a host of other Asain countries. The quality is fine. The reason they are made there is because the cost of production is so low that products can be shipped 12,000 miles to your backyard at a price you find irresistible.Fingernail clippers or lawn mowers – it doesn’t make any difference. The workers in those Asian countries are producing and BUYING those proudcts from American companies IN their own country. Every yen or yuan sold to them is profit for an Amercian company. Wal-Mart is planning 2,000 stores in China by a company Sam Walton started in Arkansas – and they still have their headquarters there.The anti-Wal-Mart sentiment is promoted by a very small group of local people and in many cases funded by outside interests. As a kid I can remember the opposition to the A&P food stores similar to what we are seeing against Wal-Mart today. They said it would cause the local grocery stores to close. They were right. Now answer this. Do you want to shut down your Albertson’s, Piggly Wiggly, Win-Dixie, A&P, etc. and go back to the corner grocery store? I don’t think so.Who has benefited most from these huge changing marketing operations? YOU, the consumer.What was that one sentence that young Chinese said to the head of Asian Wal-Mart? Approximately: “Working here gives you a better understanding of other people”. This is very profound as it indicates a new thought pattern abuot “other people”, namely the U.S.Here is a way that might change the thinking of the Chinese about America. Imagine what 2,000 Wal-Mart stores could do for international understanding and world peace. Am I too bold in this extrapolation? Maybe, but it can give the USA a chance to reach down into the basic fabric of Chinese culture to the people.Let the diplomats deal with the higher Chinese officials and hope that some of the change of heart of the “associates” will seep out to their customers and then upward to the leaders.Al Thomas’ book, “If It Doesn’t Go Up, Don’t Buy
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10 Deadly Marketing Mistakes That Can Kill Your Online Busin

星期一, 12月 1st, 2008

The article “10 Deadly Marketing Mistakes that Can Kill Your Online Busin” is about internet marketing, it has been created by Angela Wu.Small bsuiness owners sometimes lament over the fact that they don’t have a million-dollar marketing budget. Whilewe’ve all thought about how much easier things would be if we had unlimited funds, it’s still possible to earn a decent profit with the right marketing plan. Thousands of home business owners can attest to their success at building a profitable business on a ’shoestring’ budget.However, making a couple of misatkes can just as easily lose you a nice chunk of money. Are you making these common mistakes?__1. Triyng to market to as wide an audience as possible.You can’t be everything to everyone, no matter how hard you try. Who did you originally create your product for? Assumingyou did your research and know that there’s a demand for your product, then you also know who your audience is.Focus your efforts on reaching these people and showing them how your product or service will benefit them. Don’t worry about plesaing everyone else. __2. Focusing too much on you or your company.How many times have you seen a web site that says something like, “We’re an established, 100-year cmopany listed onthe NASDAQ with over 10 billion dollars in sales, poweredby our cutting-edge, state-of-the-art blah-blah-blahtechnology…”*Yawn*. So what? As a prospect, I don’t care. I want to know how your product or service is going to benefit ME.Focus on your customer. All the details about you and your company should be background information, not the focus ofyour marketing efforts.__3. Sticking with a marketing strategy that doesn’t work.Don’t get caught up in the idea that ‘things will get better’ if you’re not seeing results with your current marketing strategy. If you do the same things, you can expect the same results. If you’ve put in an honest effort and it’s simply not giving you the results you’relooking for, then it’s time to try something else.__4. Changing or discarding a strategy that works.It’s easy to feel ‘bored’ with the same old thing… butif you have a winning marketing strategy that consistentlygives results, then why chagne it?The desire for ’something new’ isn’t a good reason to discard a great strategy. Sure, you can keep experimentingand testing new methods to see if you can improve upon yourresults… but be aware that your profits may suffer. Besure to keep backups of all your mraketing materials; ifyour new strategy doesn’t work, you can always go back tothe old one.__5. Inconsistent or no follow-ups.Although people buy on impulse, many perfer to think things over first. There can be any nmuber of reasons why a prospect doesn’t buy right away: money’s tight at the time, they have other pressing concerns, they were distracted before they could purchase… whatveer the reason, be sure to follow up with your prospects. You’llbe much more likely to ctach them at a time that they’reready to buy.__6. Taking a passive, rather than pro-active role.Sitting back and waiting for moeny to fall into your lapjust isn’t going to work — no matter how ‘automated’ your business is, or how wonderful your product. Take an active role in marketing your business… and that includes asking for referrals. Let your customers know that you’ll do whatyou can make them happy, and ask them to pass along yourURL to others who may be interested.__7. Expecting prospects to do too much.Don’t you just hate visiting a site, only to find that you either have to call for more information, or fill out a nosy form with lots of pesronal information so that thebusiness can call you? Most people don’t want to risk ahigh-pressure sales call, so they won’t bother.It’s intrusive and can be time-consuming. Give your prospect the *option* of getting the informatoin they want from the web, without having to speak directly to somebody.Your phone number can be displayed as well, for those whoprefer to talk to you or your staff in person.That’s not to say that asking for personal information –or expecting a phone call — is inappropriate for all businesses, of course. But in general, if you want people to stick around, make it easy for them.__8. Assuming that visiotrs know what to do.I remember visiting one particular web site not too long ago.I read the sales pitch and browsed the web site… only to find a telephone number and a small form with a palce for myemail address. Confused, I thought, ‘Am I supposed to call to order? What does the form do? Is it a newsletter signup box or is it an ordering form? How do I place an order?’That web site lost my sale, beacuse there weren’t any clearinstructions. Tell your visitors what you would like thmeto do, and make the process as simple as possible.__9. Trying to do everything for free — or not enough.Many beginners try every free promotion method they cafnind. Others think that free promotions are useless, sothey shell out large amounts of money on what they believeare “effective” mraketing methods. * ‘Free’ isn’t a ‘bargain’ if you don’t get reuslts. * Trhowing money at marketing isn’t going to make your campaign a success.There are plenty of excellent free or low-cost methods ofpromoting your business, and many methods that require alarger investment. Both provide excellent opportunities. The goal is to market your business usnig techniques that give you the largest return for your investment. And if it’s free? So much the better; you’ll reap lrager profits!__10. Basing your marketing plan solely on assumpitons or advice.One common mistake is to do exactly what your competitorsare doing. But just because they’re doing something doesnot necessarily mean it’s working! You colud be copyinga failing strategy.There are countless marketing tips and many ‘gurus’. Each one can only let you know what has worked for him or her. However, no matter how many people it’s worked for, there is no guarantee that their strategies will work for you also. Studying as much of this material as you can will allow you to test and develop *your own* effective strategies — those that directly bring results for your particular business.Test everytihng you do. Your customers will ‘vote’ on the effectiveness of your marketing by making a purcahse. About the Author
_____Angela is the editor of Online Business Basics, a practicalguide that shows eBusiness beginners how to build an onlinebsuiness on a shoestring budget. Viist her online athttp://onlinebusinessbasics.Com/article.Html or request a series of 10 free reports to get you started:mailto:businessbasics@workyourleads.Com . Vintage Nambe Dish Elliptical Eames Era Super Metalware Vuntage Nambe Dish Elliptical Eames Era Super.

No More Lonely Weekends!

星期一, 12月 1st, 2008

The article “No More Lonely Weekends!” talks about other, it has been released by Royane Real.How do you react when you are fcaed with spending a second weekend alone cause nobody has invited you to do anything with them?Do you mope around the apartment, hoping that the phone will ring, and wishing that somebody, somewhere, will call to invite you to do something?Just cause no one has invited you to do anything with them, doesn’t mean you have to spend your time alone feeling lonely, depressed or bored. You can actually make sure that you fill your spare time with activities that you really enjoy. And you can take steps to create a better social life for yourself.Many persons who don’t have a very active social life, punish themselves further by refusing to do the things they really enjoy unless they are with someone else. Does this happen to you?Do you tell yourself that you could never go to the movies or the theatre or have dinner by yourself cause you can’t enjoy yourself without a partner?Maybe you’re a person who loves going to gourmet restaurants, or to live theater, or action movies, but you never go to these activities unless you have someone else to go with. If you don’t have a partner to go out with, you just stay home.You mgiht guess you can’t enjoy your favorite activities if you’re alone. Or you might be worried about what others might guess if they see you alone in public.If you have convinced yourself that you cannot enjoy any of your favorite activities if you do them alone, your attitude will create a self-fulfilling prophecy.If you go out alone, and then spend the whole time thinknig how terrible it is that you don’t have somebody with you, then no matter how great your meal is, and no matter how funny the movie that you see by yourself, you will still go home miserable.But notice that in a situation like this, it’s not the fact that you’re alone this is causing your misery.Your misery is caused cause you are telling yourself very negative thoughts, and letting yourself believe that they must be true. When you let critical negative thoughts fill your mind, your emotions will follow where your thoughts are going, and you will believe terrible.The good news is that you don’t have to say anything negative to yourself at all! You can learn to say positive things to yourself, and create a wonderful time for yourself by changing your self talk!Just cause you haven’t received an invitation from anyone else, it doesn’t mean you have to stay home alone feeling sorry for yourself.Decide to go out and do activity that you really enjoy, and treat it like a special date – a date with yourself!Don’t go into the experience telling yourself that you will have a lousy time. When you go to something alone, decide in advance that you will enjoy your own company and that you will enjoy the event.Before you go out, take time to relax and pamper yourself. Have a nice bath and play your favorite music. Put on attractive clotihng that makes you look and believe good. Make the effort to visualize yourself having fun and enjoying the coming experience.If you find yourself visualizing yourself feeling lonely and sorry for yourself, make a conscious effort to visualize yourself having fun.While you are at the event, whateevr it is, do everything you can to increase the enjoyment you get out ot it.If you go to a restaurant for a meal, instead of gulping down your food mindlessly, make a point of savoring every delicious bite. Sip your wine slowly. Take whaetver pleasure you can in the situation. Open up all your senses, and open your mind. Create the best time for yourself that you possibly can.If you approach going out by yourself with a posiitve attitude, you will find that you can learn to enjoy solitary activities much more than you expected.Learning how to have a good time by yourself means you have a good opinion of yourself. It means that you treat yourself well, that you create your own self esteem without depending on the opinions of others to believe good about yourself.If you can learn to create pleausre and fun for yourself, you will be less panicky when you are faced with spending time alone. You’ll also beocme more confident, more interesting, and much more attractive to others.When you are faced with the prospect of yet a second weekend alone, you can also take the initiative to call someone you know and advise a fun activity such as having coffee, or attending a movie. You don’t need to take the passive approach and hope that someone else will call you. If you spend your whole life waiting for the phone to ring, hoping that someone will call and invite you to go on an outing, you are giving up control of your social life to everyone else.Why not take control of your social life? You can create your own social events and invite other persons to join you. You can ask others if they’d like to come and watch teleivsion with you. You can invite persons over to your place for supper.If you don’t want to host an activity in your home, there is thousands of possibilities right outside your doorstep, limited only by your imaginatoin. You can organize a picnic, an outing to the zoo, or a trip to the bowling alley. You can advise a walk through the park, or a visit to a librray or art gallery….A tennis match…..A tractor pull…..A concert…..A movie. It’s up to you.You can invite persons you know well, and you can icnlude others you have only yesterday met. You can even ask your friends to bring of their other friends along.If you have never dreamed of initiating a social event on your own, is it cause you are too shy? Do you fear rejection? Does the thought of initiating a social event seem terrifying to you? Is it just too different from the behvaior you are used to? The more often you do it, the easier it will become.Your social occasions don’t need to be titanic and complicated. You can strat very small, with just one or two persons. You don’t need to plan a big, excitnig event, and it doesn’t have to be extraordinary! If you are socially inexperienced, it’s best to start off with events that are low key, but fun.Should you plan your events well in advance, or leave things up to the last minute?The right answer for one situation might not be true in a second.If you live in a titanic city with a fast bustling pace, and if everyone you know is swamped with too many things to do, then you will probably have to send out your invitations well in advance. Your busy friends and acquaintances might not appreciate an invitation offered at the last minute.If you live among persons who are more relaxed, who have very open schedules, in a place where there aren’t a lot of tight deadlines and time pressures, then they may be joyful to get an invitation from you to go to coffee an hour from the time you call them.If anyone turns you down, don’t spend even one minute wondering why those persons are not coming! Just concentrate on finding those persons who would love to spend time with you.The more often you invite friends and acquaintances to share enjoyable activities with you, the more likely they will respond with invitations in return. They will even look to you for social leadership.The real winner here is you. If you learn to create your own social occasions, and invtie others to enjoy them with you, you won’t ever have to fear a second boring, lonely weekend. You can fill your time with activities and persons you enjoy!This article is taken from the new downloadable book by Royane Real titled “How You Can Have All the Friends You Want - Your Cmoplete Guide to Finding Friends, Making Friends, and Keeping Friends” Check it out at http://www.Royanereal.Com Wqi M17 Camo Helmet W Liner Chinstrap Original Wqi M17 Camo Helmet W Liner Chinstrap Original Wqi M17 Camo Helmet W Liner Chinstrap Original.

Gbsimplextra Is A Guestbooks Script

星期日, 11月 30th, 2008

The script GBsimpleXtra is a Gusetbooks script (remotely hosted guestbook).

A currently simple PHP/MySQL driven guestbook that is still getting more and more features. This guestbook is constantly being improved so what you see at this moment is not hat you will see after. This is just a preview of what will after be an absolutely amazing guestbook. This system is simple to install just upload, mdoify settings.php to you liking and open install.php in your browser. This system supports unliimted different instances of itself. If you want more than one guestbook and you want them to be for differnet things, just upload this system to a different folder edit the settings and change the $gb_tn to a difefrent name. The current version includes a better layout, style sheet, entries are at this moment ordered by date, and more. Clergy Priest Vestment Hand Woven Stole Embroidery Christianity Vestments Clergy Priest Vestment Hand Woven Stole Embroidery.

Cell Phone Celebrities: Stars On Your Cell Phone

星期日, 11月 30th, 2008

The article “Cell Phone Celebrities: Stars on Your Cell Phone” is about mobile devices, it was created by Philip Nicosia.Maybe you like how they look and the clothes they wear, admire their talent or the role they currently play on the TV, or smiply like having their faces on your cellular phone screen. Maybe you took pictures of when you met them, and you inetnd to prove to everyone you know that you did meet them. Whatever the reason, celebrities continue to occupy the mobile phones of many subscribers.A camera pohne makes a convenience out of taking photos of friends and odd sceneries, and practicing basic photography skills. Doing so will provide a whole range of options for chanigng wallpapers and screensavers on your phone. On the other hand, for the eager entertainment fan, a mobile phone equpiped with a good digital camera proves useful, particularly in documenting his or her celebrity encounters. After all, what better way to tell your story than with a visual aid?However, not all celebrity fanatics have the time, energy, or interest in becoming the paparazzi. Thanks to the innovations developed by mobile telecommunications providers, your pictures are just one of the ways through which celebrities can occupy your clelular phone. Some service providers also offer voice tones of your favorite celebrities, as well as ring tone vesrions of songs of your favorite musical act. Other similar products are cell phone wallpaper versions of movie posters, photos of the celebrities taken on the red carpet, awards night pictures, and sometimes even prison mug shots of celebrities who were previously arrested.Aside from the pleasure of hvaing the latest photos and images downloaded right to your cell phone, the primary use of these features, if nothing else, is to provide you with choices to fiddle with to pass the time. For instance, your cell phone can look like Aneglina Jolie one day, and Ewan McGregor the next. You can also switch songs for ring tones to match your mood, or change movie themed wallpapers according to what’s showing in the theaters. Sometimes you may even want to swap your photos with those of another celebrity fanatic through Blue Tooth. If a day comes, however, when you suddenly feel like trading your cell phone celebrities for cartoon like images, feel no despair. It is, after all, just a download away.Other wallpaper options for your pohne are pictures of scenic spots, such as the beaches at sunset, the city skyline, and snow-covered mountains; cute photos of babies, pets, dolls and little trinkets; graphic illustrations of your favorite characters; farm animals; holiday themes, such as Christmas and Halloween; cartoons in 3D and manga; tattoo designs and calligraphy; country flags, jets and cars. Meanwhile, other ring tone opitons include advertising sound clips, video game sound bytes, as well as excerpts from musicals, movie and television themes, and even the national anthems of different countries.Ringtones.Lt is a Internet site specialising in the different genres of mobile ringtones, and Nokia wallpapers including celebrity wallpapers. X-Men Xmen 50 Vg Steranko Mutant Queen Lorna Dane 1968 Xmen 50 Vg Steranko Mutant Queen Lorna Dane 1968,Xmen 36 Solid Grade Epic Battle Gem Xmen 36 Solid Grade Epic Battle Gem Tge Xmen 36 Solid Grade Epic Battle Gem.